Endings. Transitions. I think for a long time I lived in fear of them. Never pathological fear, mind you. Not a phobia or an incapacitation. And when it comes down to it I think I’ve actually handled most endings and transitions in my life with a degree of ease, and as I’ve gotten older even […]

The Non-Monogamous Projection Train

What does it mean to own our own projections? Do we really absorb other people’s frickin’ karma during sex? How the hell do we process that? And how do hierarchy, internalized shame and authentic relating play into paradigm shift? Just some minor questions for the day…

Comfort & Destruction

As the earth shakes, which I’m told is happening increasing amounts, it’s triggering those big fears of suffering and loss experienced after eruptions and quakes or hurricanes. Or perhaps it’s the trauma of being in a village suddenly attacked by outsiders. We all hold these memories within us, and as events on the outside trigger the trauma held in our fields, our emotional and physical bodies can respond as if the core trauma is happening all over again.